I'm after any advice here as I'm a bit lost.
My DD is 11 and my eldest, she started a new school this academic year and they have said a few times now that they feel she is quite immature for her age.
I honestly don't know what to think, as she's my eldest I don't have anything to go by, I'm not sure I totally agree. She is into Make-up and giggles about boys, her general attitude seems fine to me. The hormones are kicking in and she can be mardy at times.
What do you think they mean by immature? as they aren't explaining anything just saying it even after me asking (one example, she loves to make things and recently made a model car for a couple of teddies, the school stated this is something they feel a 7 year old would do, I just thought it was quite imaginative) . I did ask them how you "mature" a child....
To save drip feeding, she does suffer from meltdowns now and again and struggles with anxieties, some social situations and understanding the context of comments, i.e. comments that most people would brush off she will take extremely personally and this leads to a melt down. We are trying to get her assessed to see if there is any reason for this, but it is a slow process.
I just want her to enjoy her new school and get on as well she can but this seems to be a stumbling block atm.
TIA
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lacklustremum · 15/11/2016 10:36
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