Hi all!
I've never posted on any of these sites before so please be gentle with me!
My husband and I have a beautiful 3.5 year old boy and gorgeous 7 week old boy.
Our eldest has always been a very spirited child, very loud, very boisterous (never hitting or anything, just full on!). He has never slept very well but we have never done 'cry it out' or anything like that as we didn't like the idea - we have always comforted him at night when needed but it has led to many a sleepless night and now the addition of a newborn, we are pretty tired.
Aside from that, the last week or so our eldest has been on half term from preschool and his behaviour has been off the chart. We left a play date early Wednesday as he was being so naughty - winding their dog up after being told not to a thousand times, being loud, dribbling on their sofa on purpose - need I continue? I drove home in tears. It's almost like sometimes his body is taken over and he turns into a little tyrant! He also has what can only be described as a shouting/screaming tic! He will be watching TV or something and suddenly he will shout or scream - only a short burst but it is so loud and out of nowhere! He has loads of stimulation, fresh air, love, structure (usually, aside from holidays).
I think we need to get him tested for ADHD or something - I am praying it is a phase - maybe an adjustment to new baby? But I don't know how to discipline him/deal with the behaviour. I have cried numerous times this week and had a panic attack. I don't want to keep shouting all the time - I want to enjoy our time together! Please help!
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Sadiejoanna · 29/10/2016 08:16
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