I just can't seem to do the right thing for my 16mo at the moment, she is driving me up the wall!! She kicks off at the smallest thing and moans and whines when we are round the house but then massively kicks off if i take her out to the shops etc. I just don't know what to do!!
I'm working from home today so my mum comes to help me. She's just taken her out but before she went she had a massive hissy fit getting changed, then because I turned off the TV, then getting into the car. Took her out on Monday and we ended up going for a pub lunch and she spend the whole time moaning and trying to drag me out of the pub, then her other grandparents came to see her and she just didn't want to be anywhere near them and was pulling me away from them into different rooms (they live far away so she doesn't see them that often). She's generally just being a right little madam! She is right under the cloud of the last wonder week and has got a bit of a cold but otherwise i don't think there's anything wrong with her. She's happy / sweet when she wants to be and is eating / sleeping ok.
I don't even know what I'm supposed to be doing to try and stop her from being so grumpy? Or if it's just something i need to endure and is totally normal??
My husband just sent me a link basically saying it's because she feels disconnected from her caregiver and isn't getting the attention she needs which has made me feel awful. Then other things you read say that I should ignore her / naughty step etc. WTF are you meant to do!!??
Can anyone help? Sad mummy here.
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Help! Tantrums and crying 16 mo.
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buckyou · 26/10/2016 14:48
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