So, my husband and I have been together for 10 years, married for 8 but have known each other thru our work for over 15 years.
In 2010 we had our DS. We always knew he'd be an only child.
The first 4 or 5 years with him have been manageable (but definitely not the picture perfect TV family life!) but lately he's become very selfish, whiny and totally spoiled.
An example from last night... We went to a local attraction and there were fairground rides. We let him go on the first 4 things he asked for and then he wanted to try this thing where you need to hang on a bar for 2 minutes to win £20. We explained that it would be very hard and the 3 people we saw try only managed up to a minute. We moved on and went for a crepe. For the rest of the evening he went on and on about that bar thing and basically ruined the night. This sort of thing happens every time we go somewhere. He always wants more and more and is never grateful for the experience and what he's already had.
I guess I always hope when we go out it'll be all fun and nice but we always seem to end up with a crying boy and p'd off parents. I know having an only child could be a minefield with them getting 100% of everything but I genuinely don't know where to go from here.
I would be SO grateful if anyone could offer any advice, insights or explanation as to why this happens and how we could manage it.
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6.5 yr old son. I think we've created a monster. Desperately need advice please
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LizzzLemmonnnn · 23/10/2016 12:51
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