DS1 has always been a handful.As a toddler big tantrums, took ages to settle at night then aggression towards DS2 when he arrived . Difficulty focusing, antagonising teachers by playing the clown and disrupting classes. It;s continued in this vein and now we are also facing big dependency on mobile phone (games, texting friends- it will go on until phone is removed from his hands, he can't self limit his use). School work is affected because of the amount of time on the phone.
It came to a head today when he did not pick up DS2 from school (we both work and it is part of his pocket money that he picks up twice a week, we had explicitely asked him to do so this morning). He just texted DH from a friend's house and said he wouldn 't be picking him up, DH had to leave a meeting to go to the school.
Mobile phone has now been confiscated, cue meltdown including "I'm going to kill myself`" (we are not worried he will). He's being suspiciously
well behaved at present but I'm anticipating another big scene tomorrow when he asks for phone and it's refused. I'm going to grovel to the school so DS2 can get into studio club.
Any advice on how to manage his behaviour so he listens better and quite frankly, so he is easier to manage, the level of firmness required etc would be welcome. I'll just add that I have always made time to talk to DS1, reassure him he is loved, listen to his issues etc. One of his leitmotivs is I love DS2 more.
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Struggling with DS1's behaviour (13 yo)
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whataboutbob · 12/09/2016 20:10
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