I need a bit of a rant more than advice really although if anyone has any it would be much appreciated!
I have a lovely 3.7 yo and a 16 wo. Both are great and have great temperaments (sp.) but lately I am just losing my patience quicker and quicker to the point where I just broke down last night and tonight.
My baby does not seem to like sleeping in the day anymore despite being shattered and I have no idea what has gone wrong. She used to sleep so well and has always slept at night waking just a couple of times for a feed (I am lucky, believe me, I know!) but lately she is just a nightmare napping. She used to fall asleep on the breast and would sleep well for a couple of hours at a time and then sometimes just wake for another feed before sleeping again, however for example, today and yesterday she has literally had 2 20 minute naps which I know is just not enough for her. I have tried my best, I really have but I am already back at work 3 days a week (she comes with me as I am SE) and struggling. My 3 yo is fantastic but just can't leave me alone for 10 mins to try to get her to sleep in our days at home and she is just too nosey when he is around.
She has also started becoming fussy on the breast. And it no longer settles her to sleep. She'll just scream and scream. I wind her and then try to put her back on but she screams. I try putting her down to sleep and she screams.
DH has been working late tonight so I have done bedtime alone.
I feel like a terrible mum as I had to leave my DS in the bath while I tried to settle baby as she was screaming. He ended up getting himself out of the bath, dried himself, brushed his teeth and started reading to himself all while I was trying to settle her. I feel like an awful mum to be honest.
DH and I are clashing big time also as we are just about to exchange on our house so he is spending his free time worrying about that and trying to earn some extra cash so he can have some time off when we move (he's also SE).
Just feel like I'm failing when it all started so well.
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At wits end...feeling very low and stressed...and guilty
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Peanutbutternutter419 · 27/07/2016 20:08
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