My almost 4 year old daughter has always been a mummy's girl and I'm sure a lot of this is possibly my fault but I haven't changed anything specifically other than having a new baby 11 weeks ago. DD1 has become increasingly mardy the past few weeks but it seems to be (from what other people report) only around me. I know children are incredibly manipulative and I wonder if she's figured out just how to behave to get my attention. I'm trying to be the best mum I can to both of them and still give DD1 some one-on-one time each day but at the moment she's often complaining of being tired, saying "I want you mama" or crying if I (calmly) discipline her.
I'm dreading the holidays as she will have no break from me (and me from her!)
She's at her worst if she's tired or hungry (again, very typical for this age I know) but with an 11 week old and 3 year old I'm bloody tired too!
Has anyone else experienced this or have any advice? Her dad says I'm too soft with her and she's playing me for a fool but I want to be as responsive as I can with her so she knows nothing has changed (with my attention towards her) despite the baby arriving.
Just to add she's very good with the baby and seems very proud of her little sister and often cuddles, fusses her and likes to show her off to anyone and everyone.
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How to handle mardy pre-schooler??
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worrierandwine · 21/07/2016 06:41
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