DS is 2 in August.
I don't know how to handle him in certain situations (my first child). He doesn't say many words yet so hard to explain things/get him to understand - I think he has ASD and we're seeing professionals about this - incase that's relevant.
What do you do when you're at soft play/playgroup and your DC pushes another child? He's just started doing this. Today he walked over a pushed a child over. I told him not to push other children, made him sit with me for a a minute or so (he was tantrumming at first but then calmed down but was lying on the floor) then a few moments later I said right shall we go play nicely and he got up and we went to play. I suppose a time out? Was that too much for such a young child? Would just telling him off be enough? But then I don't know if he understands 'no pushing' yet. So would he feel like there's no consequence for his actions?
Next question, what do you do when your DC throw tantrums because you've told them off? So for example he's pulled all of the washing out the washing basket. I tell him not to do that, help mummy put it back. He refuses. I bring him to the washing basket and pile of clothes and start doing it and ask him to do it too. He refuses. Starts rolling around the floor, screaming, crying, kicking his legs etc. What should I do? (Part of me just thinks do it myself 1 to the save the drama and 2 he is only little still. But then the other part of me doesn't want him to grow up thinking he can trash stuff/not help tidy up etc) I left him for a few minutes on his own, then said again shall we go pick up the washing and put my hand out so he held my hand we went to the washing and he straight away started picking it up.
Basically I'm struggling with discipline/tantrums - I don't know what I should be doing!
What do you do?
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almost 2yo DS - how to deal with his behaviour?
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GlitteryFluff · 01/07/2016 13:36
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