Dd is 7 and usually very empathetic and caring.
Her behaviour has changed lately and she seems to be taking her emotions very literally
I asked her if she thought something she had done wrong was funny and she said yes. So I said do you understand why that upset mum and it wasn't funny and she said yes but because she had laughed she wouldn't budge on that her initial reaction was to find it funny even though she knew it wasn't. (Should mention she laughs when she's nervous and what she had done wasn't really bad just a bit cheeky)
Yesterday she did something and I asked her to apologise and she didn't seem bothered at all so I said do you not care that you've upset mum? And she said she didn't know.
I had a conversation with her about it all and she ended up crying and saying she does love us but sometimes she doesn't always feel that she really cares about me and Dh.
She does care about us, she's always leaving little letters to say she loves me and she's usually very kind and loving but I'm a bit lost as how to explain to her that although she might not always feel like she cares that she does really because she loves us.
She was quite upset and worried that she didn't know if she cared about us bless her. I just told her that I'm sure she did care but it didn't mater because I loved her and cared about her enough for the both of us.
She's a real over thinking sensitive child so I just want advice really on how to talk to her about it or do I just leave it alone?
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Dd confused about her emotions, says she doesn't know if she cares about me.
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Slightlypanicked · 30/06/2016 09:55
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