Dd has just turned 6 and is coming up to the end of year 1. She is driving us to distraction. There are two issues, her school work, and her attitude.
She has a 'don't care' attitude to everything, including being sanctioned for bad behaviour. She is not remotely interested in trying at school, despite best efforts by her teacher and ourselves to encourage more work from her. She has been moved down 2 groups for losing focus, and actually that's about the time that the loss of interest in school work started. She's never going to be the best academically, but I want her to do well for her IYSWIM . She's working at expected levels in reading and maths but way behind in writing. Structurally it's all there but there's no imagination and not enough of it we've been told. How do we encourage her more? Sanctions don't work, neither do rewards. She just doesn't care. It's almost like she's switched off school and that's it.
She has always been a lovely girl but lately is pushing us to the limits. Her attitude is shocking. She's rude, disrespectful, won't apologize to people, is hurting siblings, point blank refusing to do anything I say. We've always done the 1-2-3 thing and that's always worked. Till now. She doesn't care about consequences and she's frustrating the hell out of me, as it's me that bears the brunt.
Any ideas please? Where has my girl gone? Is school / education a lost cause already at yr 1? There's no way she will cope with year 2
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Can't cope with my year 1 child. End of tether.
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SmileAndNod · 22/06/2016 10:03
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