Hey
I have an extremely articulate, and lively little boy who is 2 and a half. Unfortunately he has become a complete nightmare and I'm stuck in a shouting/screaming telling off ritual with him copying.
He had always been quite highly strung but I won't lie the last 6 months have been traumatic. we have had massive life events of.moving home and another baby coming along who is 6 months.
he refuses point blank of adhere to anything I say or even follow simple requests for something. he theneeds gets shouted at. it's now to the point that I have to shout so ferociously that it scares him and leaves me hoarse. I've also had to smack him when he has kicked out in my face or head or ignored me when I've asked him to stop doing something. I know it completely goes against what I'm disciplining him for but I'm now pretty much at breaking point as a parent. His dad also has to tell him off alot but daddy is currently the favourite parent so he's more inclined to obey him rather than me.
I'm pretty much ready to pack up and get in the car and just drive. I spoke to a healthy visitor 3weeks ago who was supposed to follow up with me to see whether their suggestion of 3 warnings and then removing him from the situation, stopping the naughty step as toddlers dont really understand it and taking myself away from the situation if I feel myself ready to meltdown. my son will just throw such a mammoth tantrum throwing himself around I'm worried he'll Hurt himself.
I hate life and it's only because I don't think my 6 month old should miss out on mummy time that I've not gone back to work. I cry daily and as hard as I try its like he knows so he ramps up the bad behaviour.
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mrsholroyd · 15/06/2016 20:25
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