DD1 is 7, and has dyspraxia. She is doing well at school, but her behaviour at home worries me. Bedtime comes, she is mucking about, I ask her to put toys away, which she does reluctantly, and then everything from there is her misbehaving and refusing to do as she is asked. E.g. Put pyjamas on. Now in and of itself that's not worth having a battle over, but endless backchat, making faces when I talk to her, threats etc. I tell her not to answer back or speak to me that way. She continues, and I warn her that She will lose 50c from her pocket money if she continues. She does. I warn her again, same thing. Then she is crying and shouting and screaming "go away" at me. I tell her that she might be very cross with me, I still love her, but that she cannot talk to me like that. Cue raging about how it's all my fault and how badly I treat her etc. It's like she cannot accept that her actions led to the consequence, even though I explained this calmly several times. She is still crying and I have told her that there will be no pocket money (she gets €2 on a Friday) until she starts treating us with more respect. Aargh. Did I handle this ok? I didn't shout, she objected to what she calls "that voice" which is simply my firm voice. She just asked to say sorry, but I told her that she still won't get the pocket money back. I find this kind of conflict very difficult to handle.
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Horrible evening with dd1 (7), how to fix?
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rhetorician · 03/06/2016 21:06
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