I really think I should try a different approach with ds.
today he was shouting and would not help tidy up when asked- dd was going to go on the computer with him after, >he just refused started shouting and when I warned him he pulled my arm whilst shouting louder. So I put him in the n c and carried on cooking- 15 minutes later he is still shouting and screaming so loudly we would definately be disturbing all my neighbours. (We live in a flat)
I do usually wait it out but think there must be a better alternative . The couple next door have a young baby and must think that I am hurting him It is impossible for me not to feel more stressed when he is screeching at that volume
He is on such a short fuse some days and everything is a battle- he is so much harder than dd was and she has her moments iykwim. Sometimes distraction works but when he is really naughty and hysterical it wouldn't work.A mist comes down, He is 3.5 and getting on well at nursery, loves it and gets bored easily which means it is impossible to get much done at home , except for when he plays with dd without falling out which only happens for short bursts of say 10 - 15 mins.
Any advice as he is doing my head in and I really try and be ccalm and patient with him . He is a loving, bright and affectionate boy underneath
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colette · 15/01/2007 18:26
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