Hi, I'm growing more & more concerned about my 3 year old hitting (mainly her cuz who's the same age) it's caused friction between our family's especially between me & my brother. We thought she had calmed down as the girls really love each other & play really nicely until something comes over my one & she will viscously scratch her! Today was the worst event because if I hadn't been sitting Infront of my niece on the stairs, she would have fallen down them
due to my LO pushing her with all her strength! When we asked her why she did it she just said "because she was in my way" A brief description on my daughter:- She has amazed teachers with her vocabulary & ability to express herself since before she turned 2, she whizzes through 24 piece puzzles,She loves to learn & she's been helping a little girl in her class with a disability, she apparently makes sure that she's ok and really looks out for this little girl so why she hits her cousin & anyone else that's "In her way" and how she thought it was ok to push her cousin at the top of the stairs is beyond me!
Today could have had a very different turn out and I thank god I was there!! But I feel like doing the "calm approach" with her is not working! If that was me as a child I would have got a smack and never done it again, which I would never do! Instead I called a child psychologist and she was so laid back about it as she says that at this age some children are not as emotionally intelligent as others..
Has anyone had any experience with this and ideally I'm interested in knowing if they do grow out of it or if this is something more serious that I'm not seeing.
She goes nursery and I'm rarely called in for things like this, apparently it's the right amount & they are not concerned at all!'she plays well with children from her nursery in & out of nursery but it saddens me that I can't just go round my brothers without having to hover ontop of them! The strangest part is that on our way there today, my LO said "I'm not going to hit my cousin today mummy" and everything was going so well for the 2 hrs that we were there but she had to end the visit like this. I'm now looking at other schools because I'm worried that she may hit her cousin at school & it will cause more problems.
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my 3 year old pushes & hits her cousin
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Mumofone181 · 19/05/2016 21:33
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