As the subject says, DS (7.5 years old / year 3) was just offered place in local school and we have accepted. We moved house about 6 months ago and it's been hard driving 30-40 min each way to take him to his old school. Local school in which he got a place is 10 min walk away, and a really nice school (equally good to his previous).
I've kind of been preparing him for a couple of months just by saying 'if a place opens you'll move there' and he had so far been interested / discussing it calmly once in a while. When the place was offered (just a couple of days ago) he again reacted calmly and actually he knows another child in the new school who will be in his class (local child he plays with). However last night he started crying and protesting that he's 'not moving / not leaving his friends etc'. It took ages to get him settled into bed and he was very upset but also angry. It's worth saying he has no siblings to help him in this transition. Also, he has to take the new school place within a couple of weeks or at the latest after half term (although I'm not sure I want to drag this whole thing on for a month).
Please hold my hand in this and tell me it'll be ok! I think it'll be so much better for our family life long term and also for him to meet local friends and have an easier transition to secondary in a few years. Driving 30-40 min each way has really taken its toll (on him too). What did you find worked if you made such a change, what helped your DC settle? My DS is generally a friendly, sociable child but he understandably is very attached to his (lovely) school where he's been since reception, his friends etc.
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Helping year 3 DS move to new school
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stilllovingmysleep · 06/05/2016 06:03
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