Hi,
My 4yo daughter does not stop asking for food. I give her balanced meals and healthy snacks but she is obsessed and asks all the time for more. As soon as breakfast (porridge and toast and glass of milk) is finished she will ask for her vitamin. Just something else for her to eat. Then she will ask me what they are having for morning tea and ask to see it. Its usually fruit and crackers. Then she pesters me until it's time to eat it and then she wants more and more which I don't give and asks when is it lunchtime. If we are out with friends she tries to eat their food or wants to go home as she wants to eat at home. Most snacks are healthy but it's the constant obsession that is exhausting me. I can handle it day to day as I control what she eats and I keep it healthy. But I'm not over strict- I give her a little biscuit in her lunch box and we have ice cream once a week. She gets treats. But when it's a social thing it's awful- she goes nuts- At parties it's embarrassing. She won't play with other kids but just stands at the food table and I'm petrified what would happen if I wasn't there to supervise. People laugh at how much she eats and think it's good she has an appetite. But this is crazy. Only recently a friend had her for a morning and she said she now completely understands why I'm worried. My friend realised just how relentless she is. I know isn't hungry and it's more than that. Her mind does not stop thinking about food and I'm so worried for her future. She's not overweight but I can see her becoming like that as she's more on the bigger end and I keep her weight healthy as I manage her diet
It's starting to really be a problem and yesterday at a party I just started crying after she wouldn't leave the food table. She'd had 2 pieces of cake, a biscuit, packet of crisps, and wanted more. Every time a child came to get something she'd run up to and ask if she can have it also and why not. I'd explain its because they'd only had one thing or nothing so far whereas she'd had lots. But she'd just ask and ask or start crying. I hate it. She's such a bubbly personality and has lots of friends and is very sociable. I just don't know or understand this behaviour. It's a daily battle. My son is 2 and he's now starting to go the same and I'm sure is learning her behaviour.
Please people don't tell me just to offer healthy snacks as thus is what I do already. It's when we are at parties when I can't control the food that it's a huge problem. But also her mindset that bothers me- the complete obsession which I don't think is healthy. I'm thinking of going to GP but I can't imagine I'll get much help. She's not overweight and I'm sure won't understand how bad it is.
I'd love to hear from people who have been through something similar.
Thank you.
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4 year old obsessed with food
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Sugar2 · 04/05/2016 18:46
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