Hi,
This might fall under a different thread but I can't find one that quite talks about the same issue.
My son is 2 years and 2 months, and has a good relationship with both me and his Dad (present, we're a happy family!). He's displayed separation anxiety towards Daddy since before Christmas 2015, because Daddy's hours were a bit longer at work (just the time of year). Our daughter arrived two months ago and we've worked so hard at easing the transition for him: he seems no worse by way of behaviour for her presence.
But.
Son's attachment to his Dad is now becoming scary: he is beyond clingy whenever Daddy is around, crying when he leaves the room or even goes to move, and won't let his Daddy leave the room at bedtime. Lately, nighttime waking has become a 'thing' again, and Daddy is spending increasing amounts of time lying next to him in his bedroom until he falls asleep.
This morning saw an enormous tantrum at the prospect of a dirty nappy-change, and I'm now at my wits' end... is Daddy too soft on him? Is that lack of discipline at bedtime causing my son to 'rule the roost' around Daddy? (which he tried to do with me, so I have more struggles to enforce discipline when Daddy's not around).
Am I overthinking this?
Thanks x.
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Attachment to father - worry?
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EmFlat · 04/05/2016 08:50
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