I wonder if anyone can either put my mind at ease or help me out with what I need to do going forward, as help from GP/HV/other medical staff is just not happening.
My little girl was sitting at around 7 months, crawling around 11 months, and has only just started walking unassisted just less than a month ago. At around 10 months we started to get 'dadada' and 'bababa' and one or two 'daddies' but since then she does nothing but inconsistent babbling and shrieking or similar high pitched noises.
She also does not point, wave or clap. The only obvious gesture we can pick up on is her putting her hands out to say she wants to be picked up. She will sometimes give us eye contact, and seems to comprehend when she is being told not to do something (ie seems to hear 'no' and associated tone of voice) and also when she is being praised (she laughs and smiles at this).
She cannot replicate any animal noises, if I ask her if she would like water/milk she doesn't know what I mean until she sees the full cup right in front of her and she doesn't offend respond to her name.
Friends and strangers have commented when she doesn't respond to them, and even way before I thought there could be an issue one particular friend constantly went on about the fact that she wasn't trying to talk yet since before she turned one.
We sing to her, read to her and play with her every day, as well as describe what we do and overemphasise our hand gestures to try and encourage her to copy. I work part time so am with her a lot of the time, and my parents watch her when I'm at work and they are very hands on in interacting with her and trying to help her develop her communication.
I have taken her to a private paediatrician who said he suggested a hearing test with the NHS but that it was hard to tell at her age if there were any communication delays/autism. I don't think there is a problem with her hearing as she can hear a food packet from another room and will turn to watch the tv if she hears a theme tune from Paw Patrol etc.
Has anyone had a similar experience where their children have developed successfully in terms of speech and language or can anyone tell me what I should do? I'm feeling very low at the moment as I don't know what to do to help her and don't want to be fobbed off when we could be getting her help now. Thanks in advance.
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17.5 month old not making progress with communication/gestures
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NovMumOne · 03/05/2016 20:47
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