Hi everyone
I'm a first time parent and my baby is 4weeks old.
At the moment I'm feeling incredibly low about things..mostly the fact that I feel I'm failing as a mother-I struggle with basic things like picking up my baby (worry I'm going to drop her) and the feeling that she doesn't love me. She responds 100% better to her Dad and seems to recognise and respond to him already but to me nothing-even though I'm the one at home all day and up with her all night. I have to return to work at 3months and have an overwhelming dread because I think I will lose her further to her day carers and miss things I should be seeing.
This week she has started fussing and rejecting bf so I am now supplementing with formula which makes me feel even more of a failure-if the bond was there surely this shouldn't happen suddenly when we've been doing so well up til now??
Sorry for moaning but I'm not sure if these feelings are normal or if anyone could offer advice. I can't talk to my husband or family about these feelings because I know they would worry and it could affect their trust in me to look after her.
Thanks
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Clueless16 · 14/02/2016 19:21
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