So my 8 yr old is a lovely girl who does have some anxiety issues which means she can get an idea in her head and ask endless questions or become very demanding.
She is so different to my younger child. You can buy a present for her and she is so delighted with it. She rarely asks me for anything and is always excited by what she gets.
My 8 year old will ask for something like Shopkins. She will go on and on about it. She will get some for Christmas then very quickly lose interest and be asking about something else she has seen at school. She will ask for presents and I always worry it won't be exactly what she wants and she will be disappointed. It was recently her birthday and for weeks before she nagged me about various things she wanted. I did get them and she did seem pleased with them but I fear it won't be long before she loses interest. Also she will say she wants a pet one day and go on and on (I'm standing firm on this one at the moment)....then a few days she'll be asking about getting her ears pierced and go on about that for a while (again she's lost interest). After Christmas she was saying everyone in her class got an ipad or a phone except her ( I suspect that's an exaggeration). It's like there's always something she wants but even if you got it for her she would never be satisfied. There's always something she wants right now (to be on TV), to go to a particular shop... and yet she doesn't notice how lucky she is and how much she has (I know children don't). I don't have much money at the moment but of course she doesn't understand and "wishes we were rich".
Someone I know who is a counsellor has a theory that because she finds emotions difficult, she tends to focus on things instead. I think that maybe true.
Or perhaps lots of children are like this.... I don't know. I'm not materialist at all and wonder where I've gone wrong. maybe by trying to give her so much. To use things to prove I love her...
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8 yr old who is never satisfied.....normal?
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NomdePlumage · 28/01/2016 21:02
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