There's a big sign up in our house saying 'End of Tether This Way.'. I'm sitting on such a load of fury and I'm not sure how to control it. I'm so close to hitting ds so often, I'm terrified.
Has anyone ever actually contacted social services themselves for help?
ds is 2.11 and an absolute sodding nightmare at bedtime at the moment. He's completely rejecting bathtime and it sounds daft but I'm not sure what the minimum amount of washing for physical health is! - where should I draw the line? He seems to have a thing about the bathroom itself - i tried just a standup wash in his bedroom but ended up with poo and wee everywhere which is normally not him at all. He knows that if he shouts and screams enough either me or dh will crack, so he tries it with absolutely everything. I make lots of battles when I shouldn't, and dh is much better at not doing so, but IMO lets himself be got round too often. He's also pretty hard work in the morning.
This has all come to a head since dh went missing for five days, but I do think it's more about me being tired and stressed than ds being insecure, not sure though.
I'm so petrified of hurting him, he is such a trial at the moment. My poor ds.
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If this phase lasts much longer I'm calling social services myself.
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choosyfloosy · 20/12/2006 00:01
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