DS turns 2 in January and has started taking great pleasure in smashing/bashing/throwing - the usual stuff. Nothing gets 'put down' any more, it's always thrown/slammed/forced.
I know it's completely normal and he's testing the boundaries etc, and I do keep a sense of proportion most of the time, but he drove me mad during a shopping trip this morning - basically anything within his reach got picked up, thrown, thumped or pushed off shelves (caused by boredom, probably).
Mealtimes are also becoming interesting, as he's started throwing any bits of food he doesn't fancy over the side of his high chair. This is usually followed by a big dramatic, "Uh-oh! Fallen over!!," to which we are required to respond with equal drama.
On the positive side...when I do take exception and ask him to pick whatever-it-is up, he does so most times (not all). After ripping some wallpaper off the wall last night, he was not allowed any stories before bed, which he accepted as reasonable 'punishment' (as far as 2 year olds can, IYKWIM).
Would be interested to hear how others have dealt with this. Would prefer not to make a big deal out of it every time (so as not to feed the fire) but equally, don't wanna be a walk-over. Need some strategies to help me count to ten and take deep breaths.
TIA.
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Help me retain a sense of humour re; DS's destructive tendencies!
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MagicGenie · 19/12/2006 14:43
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