My 3 (almost 4 year old) son has become really angry lately. My elder son (5) was never like this and I'm really concerned.
For the last few weeks, maybe months, my 3yo has had a serious personality change.
He will be perfectly happy one minute and in an instant will become uncontrollable. He screams until the point of almost making himself sick and simply can't calm down. He shouts and screams that he can't calm down and every calming technique I know doesn't work.
Recently, he's started telling me and my husband that he wishes we were dead and that he wants a new mummy and daddy! He threatens to leave, kill me in my sleep or tells me to go back to work. I don't even know where he would get this from as we're very strict on what the boys watchave on TV etc and we never talk to each other or anyone else like this.
Quite often, withing seconds of his outburst being over its like it never happened and he's the loving sweet boy we actually recognise.
He's never violent but we never know what will set him off. It could be anything from putting dinner on the table, trying to collect the eldest from school, leaving somewhere when he doesn't want to leave or today it was because I tried to pack the Xmas tree up!
We've tried star charts, taking away privileges, I can't even take him to the supermarket anymore as the last time we went he continually screamed through the checkout because he dropped his 5p lolly from the hair dresser! (I cried in the car for a good 10 min on this occasion!)
I'm genuinely out of ideas now and don't know what else to try!
Do I take him to the GP? I'm really worried about him starting school next year as I'm dreading getting a call from the school - although when he's at preschool or with any other group I get told he's an absolute delight - does he really hate me??? I'm feeling really low at the moment and the craziness of Xmas has just made his outbursts even worse... HELP!!!!
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Angry 3 year old wishes I was dead!
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Kayles86 · 30/12/2015 22:12
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