Hi,
Not sure quite how to write this or what I expect in terms of outcome, but I feel I need to share, get insight from other Mums, and basically let out a big cyber scream as I feel so incredibly helpless and lost.
My son is 6 (will be 7 in April 16). On his 4th birthday he started having eye blinking tics, these have come and gone over the last 2.5 years, with excitement/stress being a causal factor each time. These have concerned me as a stand alone issue, but I just came to accept it as 'his thing'....they never really morphed into any other tics, just the blinking. he has gone through phases of excessive urination and adjusting socks too. But they came and went with no issue. I worried they were other tics but now I'm starting to feel the whole thing might be OCD related.
Personality wise, he's always been a worrier. Likes to feel in control, know what's coming next but nothing particularly bothersome. He's bright, does well at school, has lots of friends etc.
About 4 months ago I noticed he liked things to be a certain way at bedtime. He wanted me to check his bed was tucked in tightly at the bottom, that his wardrobe doors were closed....but once completed he accepted that and went of happily to sleep.
Now, in the last 2 weeks our world has erupted with him in a way I cant even explain. He has been invaded by what he calls ' bad thoughts', these are linked to thinking about peoples privates, bad language. He wants to talk all day about his thoughts, confess the thoughts, it's like his mind has just exploded. In tandem with this the simple routine of tucking in his bed and closing his wardrobe doors is no longer enough. He now need to check these things 10 times, sort out other things in his room, worries about nightmares, won;t go to sleep and if one thing is not in order he goes absolutely crazy and screams.
During the last 2 weeks when this has escalated there have been some changes at home so I do feel there is a correlation, but am conscious that the roots were there before.
So, I'm guessing OCD, have booked an appointment with a private therapist/done lots of research. But I'm devastated at what seems to be the utter disintegration of the child I knew at warp speed. I'm frightened about what all this means, whether I can get this under control and what to expect. I am trying to hang on to any hope that I can find a way to help my little boy come home to me again as he's gone.
If anybody can relate, or has any words I would appreciate it :( :(
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OCD/Tics - my 6 year old boy
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babypup · 14/12/2015 12:47
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