Ds is nearly 10mth old and he is going through a really cheeky spell as if he is trying to push me - can this be possible so young! Basically, there are a few places in my house/mums house that ds isn't allowed - eg the fireplace at mine and the table with the ornaments at mums. From about 6mth old we have told ds not to go near them when he has headed in that direction and getting down on his level and firmly telling him no has always stopped him in his tracks. This has always worked well up until about a week ago where he has now decided to get blinkers on and shut off all sound and do what he wants.
TBH I sometimes really have to hold back a chuckle because he cruises over to these areas, looks back at me to see if I am watching - I'll either shake my head or say no and then he just defies me and goes full-on into whatever he is not allowed to do. If I get down on his level and tell him that he shouldn't touch blah blah for whatever reason then he just smiles at me and does it again!
Now, no doubt some of you will probably say he is too young or whatever but he understood right from wrong a couple of months ago, he understands it now but doesn't care to listen. He's too young for the naughty step/corner and he wouldn't understand me taking away a toy so what the hell do you do in these few months when they choose not to listen? Has anyone got any tips?
I am not an ogre who wants a perfect child but I worry that if he has decided to ignore me now then what hope have I got when he is 2/3.....16!!! (Not that any 16yr old listens to their parents ) I'm sure you know what I mean though.
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Chloewhitechristmas · 05/12/2006 10:30
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