DS is 5mo and needs to be rocked to sleep or will fall asleep in pushchair or car, he also sometimes falls asleep while nursing though not very often. He has a dummy and sometimes likes a muslin cloth up near his face to sleep. Currently he sleeps on me for most naps as if I try to out him down he doesn't sleep for very long at all. This is our current routine;
8.30am naps for about 45 mins
10.30-11am naps for about 60 mins
2pm naps for 1 and half hours
4pm naps for 45 mins
(Feeds on waking after these naps)
5.15-5.45pm bath time then dim lights, no more playing, cuddle and lullaby but must be rocked back to sleep (however seems to not sleep deeply until...)
6pm sleep on me/DP
8pm wakes for feed then falls back to sleep on me
9.45pm we all go to bed, I put DS in his bedside crib where he often sleeps til 12-2am depending on feed length
2am-5am light sleep, usually in our bed at this point as he settles better next to me
5am awake and babbling but not hungry, so DP and I don't interact
6am he will feed
6.30-7am sleeps after feed
I know there is sooo much of this situation that needs to change because DS is unable to self-soothe and I'm sure he isn't getting enough sleep. I don't know where to begin tackling this though, both I and DP are really stressed about it. I have tried to do the whole attachment parenting thing but worried I've gone too far and created big problems. How can I make it right?
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we have gone all wrong with sleep and don't know how to fix it!
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ppandj · 30/09/2015 20:23
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