bit of background first. dd2 has a problem with her walking. she stumbles a lot, ankles seem to give way and loses balence easily. she is 20months old and has been walking since 10months old. back in jan i asked for her to be referred to the hospital as in my eyes she should be getting better at walking not worse as time goes on.
Anyway, i have now let her out of the buggy for small walks round town and at dd1 nursery. as she falls a lot, she has gotton good at falling (she tends to do what we call a 'clown roll' when she falls so she doesnt hurt herself) i dont rush over and help her up. i just tend to say 'oops, up you get luv' and let her do it herself. she often gets up and promptly falls back down, so again just leave her to get herself up. I find if i do help her up she finds it even harder to regain her balence. however I have noticed some odd glances coming my way, and some people rush to help her up giving me an evil look for not helping my child. Its not that i'm lazy and dont want to help my child, its just i know she finds it easier to get herself up and not rely on me, like i say she finds it harder to regain balence after being helped up.
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am i being a bad mum when i dont help my dd after she falls?
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misdee · 12/05/2004 15:55
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