My current FT live-in nanny is looking after our only baby (8months), and she is good in general. But last week, she repeated asking me if I lied to her about my baby's dummy usage and made me very angry.
In a 20mins conversation, she repeated 3 times that 'xxx, can you don't lie to me, did you give dummy to the baby while I am not here'...I felt this is very hurtful given a) this is the 2nd time she talked to me in this manner; and b) I have no intention to hide anything about my baby's dummy usage from her - why should I?! She knew that I hated dummy and we have posted a 'Limited Dummy Rule' on the wall for over 4 months now, so that everyone has to follow and help the baby to eventually quit dummy.
The reason she 'grilled' me in this abusive manner, was simply she thought my baby acted 'differently' from the previous week, and then she decided we must have given dummys to the baby all day long while she is not around!!
She is a very moody person in her late 40's, and shouted to me once for a minor miscommunication matter. For the sake of my baby, I tolerated her behavior. But I cried while she was not around...I can not get ride of her for now as I have a big work deadline in the coming weeks, but in the meanwhile, I am very angry and do not even want to look at her. What should I do to cope with this a few weeks?? I also worried if I fight back, she would do something bad to my baby or to our home (stealing etc.)
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My nanny verbally abused me
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Pat2006 · 21/08/2015 17:45
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