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I am sorry I'm sure this is not the right part of mn to post this but here goes. My son is 27, yes all grown up. We have always been fairly close over the years although he was not mollycoddled and has his own life. He has a good albeit stressful job friends his own flat and so on. His father died when he was 19 & since then especially he has always felt and behaved as if he were responsible for his sister now 21 & me. Anyway I am really terribly upset. My DD told me she recently spoke to him about relationships. He basically said he has never been in one( I thought he had been just didn't tell me) & the reason why is he has no confidence and cannot imagine any woman being interested in him. It breaks my heart to think of his sadness and to write this. He is good looking I would say very gl ( I know I'm his Mum:)) kind hearted and has a good circle of friends many of whom have partners now. We did think at one time he might be gay but he is not. DD told me he got a knock back from a girl he asked out recently which really hurt him. He was at a friend's wedding recently and the only one of their circle without a partner which also did nit help. He also told DD he didn't want me to know which saddens me even more. I just don't know what to do.
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Adult son has no confidence
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bridie69 · 11/07/2015 07:34
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