DS attends two nurseries, a private day nursery and more recently a school nursery, the private nursery have never had a problem and feedback has always been positive, children always come running over to play with him when we get there and the staff all seem to like him - yes he's energetic / full of beans but he can sit and concentrate at circle time and does what's told at meal times etc.
The last couple of pick-ups at the school nursery however have not gone so well, the feedback has been that they've had to speak to him about disrupting the other children (when they don't want to play with him) not listening / doing as he's told when he would rather be doing something else.
At home he does like to not listen / push the boundaries, e.g. not wanting to go to bed at bedtime - we use the 123 magic system and occasionally a 3 would lead to the naughty step. I've also read 'How to talk' and 'Calmer Happier Parenting' and try to use those techniques.
I'm really really upset because I think the nursery teacher plans to feed this back to his reception teacher and I'm worried he's going to have a bad reputation before he even starts and I feel like I've done a very poor job in teaching boundaries..
Any positive suggestions?
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4.5 year old - nursery said he doesn't always listen / prefers to follow own agenda
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EssexMummy123 · 29/06/2015 16:25
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