I have a 9 yo ds. He is intelligent, well behaved at school, can be kind if he chooses. However I fell that all the time I am asking him to be nice to dd (5) all day long he winds her up and it makes me cross. He seems to relish be unkind to her. He can also be lovely to her but the middle ground doesn't happen very often. He is argumentative, he lies, he speaks so rudely to me and dh. At school there are no problems, the only trouble we have is when he is asked to do his maths homework at home we can have a complete meltdown sobbing shouting throwing things. It all sounds pathetic now but I just cannot cope it is constant. If one of us has him on his own he is fine. Dd is so well behaved it drives me mad when dh tells me we (me) are doing something wrong. I don't know what to do I just want to cry.
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