DS2 literally hero worships DS1 to the extent that he puts aside his own wants and needs to gain approval/attention from DS1. DS1 is mean to him quite a lot but it makes no difference. DS1 will sulk or just refuse to join in any game/activity that DS2 proposes until DS2 changes his mind to do whatever it was that DS1 wants to do and DS1 is fully aware of this and takes full advantage.
DS1 is literally the most important person in DS2's life but the feeling is not mutual
Is this normal?? I am concerned that DS2 is going to become a 'doormat' in future life and will put aside his own needs to accommodate other peoples which makes me sad.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Talk to others about child development and behaviour stages here. You can find more information on our development calendar.
Behaviour/development
Hero worship of older sibling - is it normal/healthy?
7 replies
spookyskeleton · 29/05/2015 15:13
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.