My 8 year old is a loving, thoughtful and affectionate child, doing well at school and has friends.
He experiences emotions to the extreme. So if he's going to do something he likes he will literally jump up and down and shout with excitement, even if it's not a particularly special thing. If something happens he's not happy with he is plunged into black despair disproportionate to the situation. He has difficulty sitting still for any length of time, rushes around at high speed, is always hurting himself. Labels on clothes really annoy him - he will not wear them, I have to cut them off all his clothes so that no remnant is left.
The real day to day problem is that he has a big temper, he explodes and lashes out at his sibs if they do something wrong, again out of proportion to the offence. He seems to take everything so personally. He will often be sorry a minute later. He has low self esteem and often says he's rubbish when he actually is doing well, good at sport etc. I'm finding family life hard to manage - his sib might tease him gently and he'll lash out, but I feel bad telling his sib off all the time as it's 50:50 with him being so oversensitive. Also fussy with food and getting worse - stuff he would eat before he's going off now, also doesn't like foods touching each other on plate etc.
Also extremely shy, scared of authority, will never approach teacher for help - even when fell at school and broke a tooth for example, just waited til I picked him up to tell me....But does have friends in peer group.
Any ideas on how to help, or books to read or even how you would term this to look online?
Not looking for label but practical ideas about how to make his life & family life better, please.
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8yo boy v labile emotions, dislikes clothes labels - help
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ButIdid · 23/04/2015 12:23
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