My ds is 7 and is behaviour at the moment is awful. I feel like crying every day and it's affecting my marriage as we're constantly stressed & finding it hard to know how to deal with him.
He is rude, grumpy, mean to his sister (3) and constantly making her cry. He calls her names and teaches her to say words he's learned in the playground, not swear words but poo, stinky bum, etc which she then repeats.
He is ungrateful, never happy with what he has got (which is a lot!) and selfish. He will strop if I ask him to help with the smallest thing, he drops things rather than putting them in the bin despite me repeatedly asking him to put things in the bin. If he plays with something he won't put it away, if he does cutting or sticking he just leaves all the mess on the table for me to clear up.
I've repeatedly explained that as a family we need to all help keeping things tidy & be nice to each other but nothing changes.
The two of them argue constantly & I'm exhausted and sick of it. I'm starting to not even want to be around them which is an awful thing to feel.
He seems to have no idea that his behaviour is upsetting everyone in the family, it's like he doesn't care.
Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I can do? I make him sound awful but he can be loving, fun & kind but it just seems to be less & less these days.
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Please help - 7 year old ds behaviour upsetting everyone in the family
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Jemster · 12/04/2015 10:19
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