I don't know what to do to help my just turned 9 yr old dd. To put you in the picture, she has never had the easiest time at school - good academically but finds the social side difficult - she has friends but no bf, and it seems to be that she isn't interested in the people that are interested in her. We,ve had the usual tears about fall outs etc , but in a few days things go back to normal and she manages.
But she was at a sleepover party on saturday and the mum called me afterwards to say she was very concerned that my ds was very unhappy and 'melancholy' all the time - didn't think there had been any fall-outs and thought i should know.
Thinking back she has been a bit quiet recently but a sleepover party is the sort of thing that ususally my ds would love so I am v. concerned.
have spoken to her and don't think there is anything going on at school (usually she would tell me). She says she doesn't want to grow up, doesn't want to be in double figures, can't get to sleep at night because she is worrying about (and crying about) me or her dad dying or one of her grandmas, who she is very close to dying.
I can understand these late night blues - I can remember feeling similar as a child, although at 12 or 13 - what troubles me most is this carrying it through to affect daily life
has anyone any suggestions about tackling this ?
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Is my 9 yr old dd is depressed?
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dropscone · 01/11/2006 11:26
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