Ok so can you just give me a bit of perspective please? DS had his 10mo check with a h/v today and there were few things that I really didn't think we're right, but maybe I'm being a typically deluded parent who is in denial about there being anything wrong with my precious child!
Firstly she said because he's on the 75th percentile for weight but only the 50th for height, I should watch his portion sizes and not give too much milk. This just didn't sit well with me. I mean, I know you always think your own baby is perfect, but DS is really not fat -he's not even a typical chubby baby! And surely you don't worry about restricting food in a 10mo?
Then she reacted like she was really concerned that DS still wakes 2-4 times a night and seemed to suggestctgats and that's really unusual and that it was a really bad thing that I'd got him into a "bad habit" by feeding him back to sleep. DD didn't sleep through til 15mo, so I don't find it that unusual at all. We cosleep and whilst obviously I'd love him to be sleeping through, I actually think I cope pretty well with the broken sleep and it doesn't bother me massively at the moment. But she made me feel like it was a cause for concern.
Then she said that he's not reaching his gross motor milestones and if he's not pulling to stand within 3 months to come back because he might need referral to physio. Now, I know he's a bit slow to get moving, but DD was just the same, so again, I'm not hugely concerned, especially as both DH and I were late movers too. And I'm a health professional myself and just felt it was really unprofessional to comment to a parent about physio referral at this stage as its sure to trigger anxiety, when in all likelihood he's absolutely fine. Why on earth would you mention a physio referral now -he's not even really delayed - just the slower end of normal!
what do you think. Am I being over sensitive or in denial or was that bad advice?
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Bad health visitor advice or in denial?
blushingmare · 31/03/2015 22:39
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