DS2 is 4.7 and is having real problems managing to wipe his bottom. He's never particularly liked doing a poo, ever since potty training (no apparent reason why), and he tends to hold it in for quite a long time - he often goes a number of days without pooing (although I'm not always 100% sure, as he occasionally goes at school). When he does go, his poos are, frankly, pretty epic in volume - but never hard, always very soft (though not as soft as diarrhoea). I think this is part of the problem - because his poos are very soft, they're extremely messy for him to wipe - they even take me quite a few wipes and sometimes wet wipes to get him clean. He's generally very good at doing things for himself, and he has been through a few concerted attempts to do the wiping himself, but then when he gets in a mess and gets poo on his hands he gets disheartened and doesn't want to do it any more.
I really want to help him to learn, but I don't know how. I'm not sure if I should be focusing on getting him to go to the loo more often, so there's less poo to deal with, or trying to adjust his diet to maybe give him firmer poos - or somehow teaching him a better technique. It's not that I mind helping him, or that I'm squeamish about wiping his bottom - but his school are very keen for him to be independent, and obviously he's going to need to do it himself eventually.
Does anyone have any tips?
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Bottom-wiping - diet or technique problem?
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LapinDeBois · 26/03/2015 22:32
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