Hello all, please help me, it's that time on a Sunday night where I can hardly face the thought of the week ahead!
Background: DS2 has just turned 4. Has recently been diagnosed with an expressive language disorder which he is getting excellent support with from a SALT.
He is a super high strung, intense, sensitive boy. The slightest thing sets him off; being told no, a change in activities, being hungry/tired/bored, I feel like I am always on eggshells wondering what he's going to kick off over next. I am currently reading this book about spirited children and it has been so helpful, but I think the main problem is frustration as he cannot always express himself, although this is slowly improving.
What can I do to help him with the frustration? It is getting so bad, he shouts at me and DH all the time, screams, screeches, hits and blows rasperries right in our face when he is really upset. I am getting so stressed with it, I cringe interacting with him in case he kicks off. I have to say he is really only like this with me and DH, nursery and SALT don't have any problems like this from him
He gets on great most of the time with DS1 who is nearly 7 and very good with him, but when they play he is inclined to get overstimulated quickly and it degenerates into tantrums and arguments!
Has anyone experienced anything like this? Time outs and removing treats/toys just do not work - he is the most stubborn person I have ever met, he just will not back down. Distraction is more successful but if he is thoroughly upset (which happens quickly) it doesn't work. I spoke to my HV but of course he was an angel in front of her and she just gave me a booklet on tantrums.
If you can offer any advice I would be so grateful. I am a SAHM/student so it is usually me on the receiving end and I recently I feel like I am going to have a nervous breakdown with it :(
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Super stroppy 4 yo with language disorder
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FoxPass · 01/03/2015 22:59
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