I work Tues to Thurs and on these days the children are awful. I pick DS up from the CM and DD up from nursery and get home for abut 5.50. DH is usually home at a similar time. I get changed and have a meal on the table by about 6.10, while DH makes drinks, supervises DD etc. Then we eat by about 6.30, play, then at 7 it is upstairs, bath, pjs, teeth, story and bed.
But just now DD is really hard to deal with. Sometimes it kicks off in the nursery car park because she won't get in her seat (she insists on doing this herself), otherwise it is at teatime. Then while we are playing she is fairly OK - although does get cross or try to get involved while DS is reading his reading book. But once she gets out of the bath it all starts again, usually calming down when she has a story.
All this in turn has a negative impact on DS's behaviour - he is attention seeking I think.
Last night was particularly bad, with DD screaming at teatime, hitting both DH and me, saying she didn't like me, DS refusing to eat because he had his hands over his ears etc, complaining about the photo album I had bought him to put his holiday photos (disposable camera) in, whining about being sent upstairs to get his reading book etc. DD calmed down at this point and enjoyed putting the photos in the album. They enjoyed their bath, blowing bubbles etc. Then when they got out it started all over again. DD complaining about which towel she had (they are identical), DS complaining in return, DS crowding DD (to wind her up), DD hitting DS, DD refusing to choose which pants to wear and refusing to let us choose, DD hitting DH, DD refusing to clean her teeth, DD throwing her toothbrush across the bathroom etc etc.
The rest of the time, though, DD is a lovely little girl who just gets on with things. We went out for an extended family meal on Sunday and (despite no nap) she was really well behaved despite it dragging on for about 4 hours. Yet last night she couldn't manage 20 minutes in the kitchen.
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Evenings from hell 3x a week with 2yo and 5yo - any tips?
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Bozza · 19/10/2006 14:44
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