Seeking to invoke the wisdom of mumsnet!
DS (4) is an only child, not by choice. He's very sociable and looks forward to having playdates. But he's also used to having all our attention and not having to compromise with siblings. I'm getting increasingly concerned that he's heading for being a brat. On every playdate he gets overwhelmed and either hits, or verbally attacks, his little friend. He's big for his age too... I always come down on the behaviour and make him apologise, but it doesn't stop it repeating, or him spoiling games if the other child is winning, or go off in a sulk on his own leaving his playmate alone and defeating the whole object of a playdate. He doesn't care about any consequences apart from withholding bedtime telly, and I can only take that away once a day.
He so wants to have friends and play, and it breaks my heart to see him hanging on the edge of groups at the playground when I take him, but he's heading in the opposite direction. I'm already sensing mums being less open to playdates when he's hurt their kids, quite understandably.
Do I go medieval on his ass? Do I nurture him through it all? Help!
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Spoilt DS (4)
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MoJangled · 23/01/2015 23:02
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