Not sure how to title this and it's tied out with other threads I've posted before concerning my 9 year old ds.
I'm aware that my son spends most of his playtimes at school on his own in the playground (his teacher pointed this out in the parent consultation we had this week too)...she wondered whether it was his choice to be on his own or whether he was having trouble joining in or was being excluded from games. I know that he is very self contained and full of inner resources so he is able to entertain himself quite happily - he is never bored,I can honestly say and is always doing something or thinking up ideas,stories,etc. This is quite similar to me as a child and his father, though I was always quite sociable and played with my group of friends when I felt like it (and I'm happy to say that I still know them now,a zillion years later !).
He is a happy and bright boy,an only child and likes school very much. He is able to play wll with other children as he had a circle of friends at his previous school (we moved away from London 16 months ago) and I know how well he interacts with them - he shares and is kind and thoughtful,not bossy or anything. There is a boy in his year who comes to tea occassionally and they get on really well, so I know he can do it, but it's whether he wants to do it !
I do know the value of frienships though and would really like him to establish some relationships.
Does anyone have a similar experience or any advice ? His teacher has suggested picking a buddy to help him at playtimes which I think is a good idea. I wondered what else might help...
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binker · 17/10/2006 10:29
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