My son is 2.9. He is very intelligent and articulate (rides a bike with no stabilizers, is able to have a 'full' conversation) and also very affectionate but he has huge sleep problems, and always has had.
Good example.....last night I worked a night shift, phone DP at 7am to see how things are (they have a very long drive to go pick up dsd today and wouldn't be home when I got back) and he is nearly in tears down the phone as DS woke at 11pm, 12.30am, 1.45am, 2.40am, 3.50am, 4.30am, 5am and then 6.30am when DP eventually gave up!!! This is actually a little more extreme than normal, normally we get a couple of hours between 11am and 2am!
I was talking to a friend at work after the call and she instantly said that ds must have ADHD. I have to say, she is just one of many who have thrown this my way, even my own mum has suggested this!
I admit my son is very high energy but I thought this was normal for his age. We saw a paediatrician in Feb about his sleep (who was a chocolate teapot and said he wasn't sleeping as he was clearly very clever and was having problems with 'switching his brain off'. Thanks, helpful.)
My ds's behaviour is very up and down and very much depends on how he's slept. We have a sleep nurse specialist involved at the moment who says he is over-tired in the extreme and firmly believes this is why his behaviour suffers. He is aware he's doing it and says 'I don't want to be naughty mumma' but just can't stop himself.
Are people being to quick to try and label our ds?
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wtfhappened · 20/12/2014 15:17
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