Sorry if this is long, i don't really know where to start. I have 3 boys, 6,4 and 1. My 6 yr old has his own issues but is a very pleasant and extremely well behaved little boy. We are often complimented on his behaviour.
My 4 year old has always been feisty!! He is very intelligent, very funny, has lots of friends and is behaving at school. At home he is like Jekyll and Hyde. In the last week he has kicked me in the shins, screamed, shouted, had several tantrums and punched me in the face ( i asked him to fasten his own seat belt and he finds it hard). He has also told me he loves me several times, made me laugh with silly jokes and made me a card completely unprompted.
I am exhausted and worried i am becoming depressed. If friends comd over he is equally unpredictable and i think people are starting to avoid us.
Teacher has no concerns. Lots of peopld mention middle child issues but his behaviour started pre dc3. I remember speaking to his nursery teacher ehen hd was just 3 (she had no concerns).
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Struggling with my 4 year old
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3boys3dogshelp · 28/11/2014 11:38
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