Hi, my DS started Reception this year, was 4 in July so young for year, had been in nursery part time before. He had trouble settling in, said no-one knew his name, didn't have any friends, was being a bit disruptive etc, at one point had a total melt down at school, screaming and even took his clothes off which he's never done ever before! But on going back after half term, he seemed to settle a bit better. Have been called to speak to teacher twice this week! Once because him and another boy were apparently leaving another boy out, on explaining themselves they said it was because he had dark skin, I was mortified when I was told this, he's never spoken that way before and they think he must have picked it up in the playground. Was really shocked and upset and also confused by why he would behave like this but talked to him that day about being kind to people and how there are differences with people like skin, hair and eye colour etc. he listened but then said he didn't want to talk anymore about it. Picked him up yesterday and teacher said that he'd been expelled from the lesson for behaviour, being really disruptive, not doing as he was told, answering back and laughing when the teacher pulled him up on it. I just don't know how best to try and sort his out. He is my eldest child so have no experience of this before and I don't know what I should be doing or saying to help him. I don't shout but explain that I expect to hear about good behaviour. Any ideas in what to say, do, a chart? Please help, I feel like I've for the only child in the class that's playing up!!
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Need advice on how to support school with son's behaviour
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PeggyL · 21/11/2014 17:40
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