My post is about my friend's child. She has a 4.5 year old boy, who loves Disney Frozen. Who doesn't?! Seems that plenty of his male friends at school love it too. And they role play as the characters, him as Elsa, his male friend as Anna, and another male friend as the snowman.
I think it's pretty cool that boys want to role play as female characters - too often we hear that boys won't ever identify with female characters, clearly not true at least in this case!
So far, so good. But she recently told me that he's been asking for an Elsa costume - the dress, the cape, the crown. He's already been pretending with his dressing gown, but would like the 'real' thing, and was asking for it in the toy shop - all glittery, big princess dress. She's cool with it, but her husband thinks it's wrong.
My instinct would be to let him do it at home. Seems innocent and fun and let's him express himself and roleplay and all the important things we value. And more than that, it avoids the potentially negative messages he'd get when being told "no".
At the same time, I wondered what if he wanted to go out like it? What if his friends saw him? Invite the comments or avoid them by preventing him from doing what he'd like to do?
Would love to hear some different views on this.
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4 year old boy wants to wear Elsa costume
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vladimirimp · 24/10/2014 15:28
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