I'm feeling a bit sad today. My DD, who is 2.2 year old, keeps lying. She's only just 2 for goodness sake. I know lots, of children lie and I know it will happen at some point, but she is only just turned 2!
I first noticed it a few weeks ago, when I would for instance place a hand on her back and guide her inside the house and she would turn around with tear-filled eyes and say "ow mummy, you pushed me". I thought maybe she didn't really understand the difference between an encouraging hand and pushing so I would calmly explain that I wasn't pushing, I was just helping her.
Then it was "DBro pushed me/hit me/kicked me". Sometimes I wouldn't see it and I would maybe give her the benefit of the doubt and would tell my DS to be nice, but other times I am there and can quite clearly see that he hasn't touched her.
And then today my friend and I were waiting with our younger DC for our older DC to come out of school and DD came up to me with tears in her eyes and her saddest face saying that my friend's DS had pushed her over. He was nowhere near her and she had been playing on her own. She was only a metre or 2 away from me, I could see quite clearly...she didn't hurt herself at all. It was completely made up.
I'm just baffled and quite sad about it. How do I deal with this? I've told her it's not nice to make up stories but it doesn't seem to go in. Not sure if it's relevant or not, but she's just started at nursery 3 weeks ago.
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My DD (2.2) is lying to me
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CoffeeChocolateWine · 29/09/2014 18:37
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