She has always been an 'extreme child'. Getting her to go to bed was always a nightmare, she seemed a lot more stubborn than your average child and every evening was like starting at square one again even though I remained consistent. When she was a toddler she would smear her poo on the walls at night, when she was a little over 3 she started wetting herself onpurpose if I gave her time out. Her tantrums were extreme. She is now nearly 6 and the behaviour has developed into spitting, poking and calling names and it seems as though it a vindictive and done with malice. She doesn't listen when me and oh try to reason with her or discipline her. There are improvements in behaviour based on rewards for a brief time only.
Yesterday I was on the loo and she came in saying she was desperate and I said "just one minute". So she went upstairs and weed on her bed and shrugged her shoulders saying "it doesn't matter there's a waterproof sheet on it".
Tonight has been the usual back chatting and rudeness and spitting. I'm afraid to say I am scared of losing control around her. I find myself fighting the urge to physically lash out at her. It has got to the point that I do not like her when she is like this.
On the flip side, she behaves fine on school, socialises well and is very caring and sensitive with her 1 year old sister.
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At wits end with 5 yo dd behaviour, not normal!
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mumbocrumble · 16/09/2014 20:47
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