Everything has been a battle. Nothing has been fun today. I don't think I am handling things well, but I have a very mobile 1 year old as well.
My eldest is just turning three and he just seems so grumpy & unmanageable compared to other children. He is stubborn, strong willed and defiant but the problem is that it makes my blood boil and I'm losing my temper all day.
He just doesn't listen to a word I say at the moment for eg. 'Stop using something', which he takes no notice of then I'll repeat stop doing it because x/y/z, then when he continues I say if you continue to do that then I'll have to take it off you. He continues. I take it off him then he will get angry &either hit/spit at me - then time out step for 2/3mins. And repeat - I feel like that has been my entire day. (I do time outs for hitting, kicking,spitting or biting or hurting his brother).
Afterwards he says sorry and we talk about why he was on the step but then he refuses to listen/ do something else & it feels like the cycle starts again.
It has felt endless today, after having had a relatively good weekend
He also seems to spend the entire day moaning about how much he wants to see Daddy (daddy working overtime all bloody week).
I am feeling really low. Nobody else's child seems so, what's the turn, spirited/high maintenance/angry all the time. I think it's down to me losing my temper with him all the time.
I am exhausted, my youngest is just turning one & I have no support (in fact I have the opposite- a highly judgemental & critical but completely hands off mother coming to stay tomorrow)
Give me some perspective.
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Terrible day with a three year old - give me your perspective
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Albertatata · 08/09/2014 19:51
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