Help please!
My 19 month old DS has bitten me quite a few times. Usually leaves a mark. I have been dealing with it by firmly telling him "no" and walking away from him. Sometimes he is upset that I've walked away (which presumably is a good thing!), but more often than not he just wanders off and does his own thing.
Unfortunately he has now started biting at nursery we had our second incident yesterday. He has also bitten my friend's little girl. I have a suspicion it's frustration.
He started nursery at 10MO last November. He was the only "baby" by quite a long way. The nursery is set up with a "baby" room (0-2 children), a "toddler" room (2-3) and a preschool room (3+). The pre-school room is designed to get them ready for school, so is completely separate. The baby and toddler rooms are separate, but with an adjoining door, and they mix together for activities quite often. When he was the only baby, he spent a lot of time in the toddler room and I think became used to interacting with older children and got used to how they play. Now there are younger children his key worker has to care for a younger child too, which means that DS sometimes has to stay in the baby room more often. I think it's just unfortunate that they have a big glut of babies, a big glut of older toddlers, and DS is just stuck in the middle. I have told nursery I wouldnt object to him moving up to the toddler room early where the children can defend themselves but of course this will upset their ratios.
Any ideas what to do? At the moment nursery are telling him a firm "No it's not nice to bite", and then taking the victim away to be fussed.
Alternatively, anybody know where I can get a muzzle for him?
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19 MO DS Biting
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LetThereBeCupcakes · 03/09/2014 10:41
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