I have a 3 year old son, soon to be 4, who is very well behaved, very polite, calm and just generally a nice child to be around he is very loving, my 2 nephews on the other hand have my sister at her wits end, and my mum who is doing all she can to help my sister stay a float! my sister is a single parent and my 2 nephews, who are only 15 months apart, are 2 and 3, are the total opposite to my son. They both have very bold personalities and need to be entertained constantly, but find it really hard to do as they are told. They eat well, but after every meal the hoover has to come out as they just throw food everywhere, the 2 yo used to sleep great but lately has just decided he's not going near his cot, changed it into the bed but still didn't help now he doesn't sleep, the 3 yo has taken a long time to potty train, finally done it, and now just stopped again, we think maybe because he sees his younger brother getting his nappy changed? I know most children revert back for a little while when potty training, as did my son, but my nephew seems to have just given up completely!
Both of them climb out of their car seats, my sister who lives a 5 minute drive away from my mums can take up to half an hour to get home as she has to keep stopping and strapping them back in. This morning, the youngest actually managed to get out of the locked car and run down a busy street before my sister could catch up with him, meaning she had to leave the other one in the car alone, who could have done the same thing in the opposite direction, its getting to the point were it is really dangerous now! is there any type of restraints we could get that would help secure them better in their seats? Obviously the doors are child locked we don't know how they manage it!
We have tried the naughty step, obviously not for long enough, as neither of them seemed to take any interest! when my sister tells them off, she does raise her voice and shouts, to which they just shout back, I know from experience with my own son, lowering the tone of my voice is much more effective, which I have tried with my nephews, but just get completely ignored.
We just don't know where to go next, does anybody have contact information for a super nanny/nanny 911 type of person? It got to that point now! they cant be taken into the shops they just run riot, climb out of the trolley, fight etc. Neither of them can be taken anywhere with the family for, say a meal for an occasion, as its just too hard! we have days sometimes were we will spend the whole day together, but not actually say a word to each other as we will be sorting the children out the whole time! When they aren't behaving like this, they are the sweetest boys, really funny vibrant personalities, but this is very rare!
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2 year old and 3 year old behaviour out of control! Desperate need of help!
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Louisee58 · 01/09/2014 10:40
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